From Arnie Boich
Hutchinson
Have you noticed what is happening in Hutchinson?
The ability to get adult pornographic videos and movies has increased dramatically in the last decade, and it’s all legal, just so as long as you are 18 years old and you know where to get it. Cable TV, the Internet and now even some stores are succumbing to this great temptation, and people seem to think that it is no big deal.
The word “family entertainment” has now lost all sense of meaning. American families are in greater danger than ever before. Pornography has and will continue to destroy families and destroy societies.
Pornography is the seed that leads to all kinds of sins. Adultery, rape, abuse and even murder have been linked to pornographic material. I ask you to not do business with any store or industry that promotes this kind of material. I have a difficult time already when I go into video stores and try to find videos for my family because of the pornography displayed in “R” rated and even “PG-13” and some “PG” movies. But to go online, watch TV or to go into a store and to realize that my dollars are used to support a business that rents X-rated movies — that is going too far for me.
The Bible says to flee all sexual immorality. It also says that if you even lust in your heart that it is the same as committing adultery. The great King David of the Bible repented of this sexual sin. But before he did this it was apparent that he had fallen into lust, committed adultery, and even committed murder.
Pornography is a trap that leads to moral destruction, and even spiritual and physical death. Please don’t do business with any company that sells pornographic material. But if you do need to do business there, let them know that you do not appreciate the pornography that they sell.
Now this is more...
Back to page topNow this is more interesting. Any comments??
"I have a difficult time...
Back to page top"I have a difficult time already when I go into video stores"
Well, Arnie, recognizing your addiction is the first step to recovery. I wish you luck.
At least I have a...
Back to page topAt least I have a conscience. There are a lot of people who don't even care what their eyes see. Their eyes are seered and their hearts are hardened.
Do you see what I see? Truth...
Back to page topDo you see what I see?
Truth is an offense,
It's silence for your confidence.
Truth? What is truth? Truth...
Back to page topTruth? What is truth? Truth is the Word of God. "For all have sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God" That is truth.
If it bothers your...
Back to page topIf it bothers your conscience to look at such things that you say are bad, why do you keep looking at them?
I do not keep looking at...
Back to page topI do not keep looking at such things. I'm just saying that pornography is such a common place in our society that sometimes it gets in your face and is disturbing because of the ills that it brings society. Not many people will take a stand against such sin because, as you have noticed in this blog, people will attack your stand and try to put you down.
Usually those that put you down are the ones that need the most help. I feel sorry for them because of their ignorance to things of God.
We all struggle with sin, but God is a merciful God and provides a way out. It's called grace. We just need to accept His forgiveness and grace and He will help us through the most difficult of situations.
Thank you for your concern.
You were attacked?...
Back to page topYou were attacked?
We thank everyone who...
Back to page topWe thank everyone who participates in this discussion and encourage all to follow the rules, which include refraining from vulgarity. Thank you.
(Doug Hanneman is editor of the Hutchinson Leader. He may be reached at hanneman@hutchinsonleader.com)
The availability of...
Back to page topThe availability of pornography is not a problem...it is a result of the fact that people are sexual beings who seek outlets to express their sexuality. For many people, masturbation is the primary sexual outlet and pornography enhances this practice. Yes, there is abuse in the pornography industry, and in some cases it may fuel mentally ill people to act out, but sexually explicit material is much like tobacco, alcohol, religion, television...use if if you choose to, don't go overboard...ignore it if you don't want it. If there is no demand, stores will stop selling it.
You make the use of...
Back to page topYou make the use of pornography like eating a piece of candy. Get real! The use of pornography in America and in the world is staggering! Pornographic revenue is larger than all combined revenues of all professional football, baseball and basketball franchises.
US pornographic revenue exceeds the combined revenues of ABC, CBS, and NBC (6.2 billion) Child pornography generates $3 billion annually. ( http://www.not-for-sale.us/pornstatistics.htm )
It's a very serious problem that leads to all kinds of sin! Sin leads to spiritual and physical death.
Your reasoning is very foolish. Come on... you can do better than that!
Upon my podium as the know...
Back to page topUpon my podium
as the know it all scholar
Down in my seat of judgement
gavels bang,uphold the law
Up on my soapbox,a leader
out to change the world
down in my pulpit as the holier
than-thou-could-be-messenger of God
Aura_Lee, this would be more...
Back to page topAura_Lee, this would be more appropriate...
Before you judge me take a look at you
Can't you find something better to do
Point the finger, slow to understand
Arrogance and ignorance go hand in hand
Nice, and I thought I was...
Back to page topNice, and I thought I was the only one who listened to "Rust In Peace".
One of my fav songs. I'm talking about "Holy Wars" not "Holier than thou". It's a sin that Metallica even put out all the albums after "...and Justice For All".
Your references to sin and...
Back to page topYour references to sin and biblical injunctions don't mean much those who use rationality to determine correct and incorrect actions. I don't think sexuality is sinful, it is just a fact of the human condition. The fact that people crave sex is morally neutral. Humans should choose to seek don-destructive sexual outlets, because acting responsibly helps society thrive. Using erotic imagery can be part of a healthy sex life and does not generally lead to physical or mental harm.
Yes, pornography is a huge business! Perhaps we could reduce demand by fostering loving, mutually satisfying interpersonal relationships throughout society...by raising our children to be caring, generous partners and supporting troubled families to try to keep them intact. Sex with a consenting, caring partner is always better than masturbating with pornography...but is not always an available option.
Thanks for replying. I do...
Back to page topThanks for replying. I do understand what you are talking about and agree with what you said. Many children grow up without having a loving relationship from their family, and we do need this more in our society. Even as adults we sometimes do not receive the proper love from our spouse or our friends, but I do not agree that sex before marriage will solve the problem.
As you see, I truly believe in a just and Holy God... not a hateful God, but a merciful God full of compassion and righteousness.
I believe that Jesus Christ came to this earth to die for our sins and that He rose from the dead to give us everlasting life to all who believe in Him.
Because He conquered death and sin... we can have victory over our sin, and even victory over death itself.
We do not have to fear His righteous judgment. We simply need to ask for His mercy and receive His forgiveness.
I truly believe in this because it is Truth.
I hope you understand where I am coming from and do not falsely judge me as some others have in this blog.
Thanks again.
Who judged you Arnie? I'm...
Back to page topWho judged you Arnie? I'm reading all the posts and I don't see it.
donutsmakemybrowneyesblue...
Back to page topdonutsmakemybrowneyesblue submitted the second reply to the letter I sent to the editor and he implied that I was a sex addict.
I realize that he was just trying to bait me and that he was mostly being sarcastic, but the comment still made me feel hurt, because his comment is not true.
I don't know, Arnie, that's...
Back to page topI don't know, Arnie, that's kind of weak. I just re-read that posts and It looks as though that person legitimatly might have thought that about you by the wording of your post. Just a word of advice, if your feelings are going to be hurt by someone such as donuts, maybe this isn't the place for you. No offense intended.
I think you're right. But, I...
Back to page topI think you're right. But, I do have one person in the blog that is actually carrying on a good blog conversation with me. I'll just stick with his/her replys, and try to ignore the others. Thanks.
Arnie, are there support...
Back to page topArnie, are there support groups for those who are addicted to pornography?
There was one out of...
Back to page topThere was one out of Bethlehem Baptist Church in Minneapolis, called PAST (Persevering Through Sexual Temptation). I don't know if it still exists. That was 20 years ago.
I'm getting some information put together locally here in Hutchinson and am waiting for return phone calls and will reply as soon as I get the info. Thanks.
Support groups for those who...
Back to page topSupport groups for those who are addicted to sex and other addictions are available in Hutchinson as well as in the cities. I did some research and found these sources for support:
TURNING POINT Starting in September (Riverside Assembly of God Church, Hutchinson) 320-587-2074
CELEBRATE RECOVERY (Christ The King Lutheran Church, Hutchinson) 320-587-2776
CHURCH OF THE OPEN DOOR, Maple Grove, MN (763) 416-5887
GRACE CHURCH OF EDEN PRAIRIE, MN (952) 926-1884
If any of you out there need help with a sex addiction or any other addiction, please call one of these numbers. These are loving people that will not turn you away.
I'm into cornography. I go...
Back to page topI'm into cornography. I go to the corn palace once a year and I camp out in corn fields.